Dear Love,
This vampire I like keeps texting me at 2am asking if I’m ‘up’… is this a situation-ship or could this be a hint for something more?
-Casually Dating
Dear Casually,
It’s giving “you up?” energy, not “I see a future with you” energy. If all their effort lives between midnight and sunrise, that’s not mystery, that’s a pattern. Yes, they’re a vampire, but even vampires can plan ahead, hold conversations that aren’t convenience-based, and show interest outside of “are you available right now.”
Right now, you’re being treated like an option, not a priority.
LB